Thursday, November 19, 2015

Batch 6: Free Write 1 – Once a Bully, Always a Bully

During my internship in Tonga I saw and witnessed high school rivalries taking it to the streets with physical fist fighting, bullying and physical abuse. To make the matters worse this was actually caused by church schools. Apparently every year during the rugby season these school fights had challenged not only police officers, ministry of police, school administrations but also the government. A lot of times students were hurt severely from this causing death and hospitalization due to injuries. 

I am so done with this so called Tongan culture and Tongan family respect. The abuse and bully had gone far too long. Do you really think that you can bully people and get away with it? The abuse whether physical or verbal will no longer be tolerated. I am going to spearhead advocating for change. Although it is going to be a very tough job campaigning for this type of behavior to stop nevertheless my passion to make a difference will supplant.

Do you really think that all your physical abuses in the past didn’t leave a trace? Do you really think that though it happened in the past that you are protected due to Tongan families’ forgiveness and also due to cultural influence? Let me say this, these criminal acts of physical cruelties don’t have that protection under the statute of limitations. Please dig deep down and try to remember dates when children were admitted to the hospital with physical injuries. Accessing medical records can be done if ordered by the court. Think about it Mr. Bully/Bullies! Please stop picking on innocent children in town because they attend a particular school, maybe it is time that the law picks on you.    


This is one of the extreme social issues in the Kingdom right now, and it is very disturbing indeed that this happens year after year. It should be stopped. Rugby sports shouldn’t be suspended or taken away from high schools because some of the students who excel in rugby are picked for international schools overseas under scholarships. A lot of people are pointing their fingers at parents to whom they believe should start the discipline. But then the corporal punishment still exists in Tonga from home which is controversial. There is need for government intervention there. I know advocating for change will be extremely difficult, but somehow I will find a find a way. 

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